Memory can be complicated, especially when you have a terminal diagnosis. Tom revisits the day of his diagnosis, only this time from the viewpoint of his 26-year-old daughter.

What does it feel like to discover you have stage 4 pancreatic cancer? And how do you tell others? Tom walks us through the day he received a terminal diagnosis and, additionally, the moment he had to say the words, “I have pancreatic cancer,” to his family.